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If a survivor confides in you, you can become an integral part of their healing process. By understanding your role, you can help someone find courage and strength. The link below provides a list of tips and strategies for supporters.
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The following is a list of tips to the right is to keep in mind when you are confided in by a survivor. You can also visit our Resources section for more information and resources for family and friends of survivors of sexual and domestic violence.
The following is a list of tips to keep in mind when you are confided in by a survivor. You can also visit our Resources section for more information and resources for family and friends of survivors of sexual and domestic violence.
- Listen. Be completely present and actively listening. Use eye contact.
- Avoid doing anything that might give the impression that they don’t have your full attention.
- Do not be judgmental. Help them remain calm and in control.
- Believe him or her. The majority of reported rapes did happen. It is not your job to question the events.
- Encourage the person to consider reporting the crime to law enforcement or legal counsel. They can often provide the information the person needs to make an informed decision, but ultimately, it is their decision.
- Be patient. The healing process is unique for every survivor and can take years.
- Offer resources for professional help. This should include local rape crisis centers, campus resources, or sexual assault hotlines.
- If you are concerned that someone you know has been victimized, consider bringing up your concern with them.
- If need be, confide in someone you trust later for your own support.